By the way, one fruit of the previously mentioned visit from my friends were the varied spiritual books we shared that we have read recently. One mentioned was http://www.amazon.com/Fulfillment-All-Desire-Ralph-Martin/dp/1931018367 It is a powerhouse. Ralph Martin has done a terrific job of guiding us to the saints....and all of their wisdom. His writing is so approachable. I highly recommend this book and thanks to Maria for my gift of this book. I love it!